Women


When a girl is born, she is born under the mercy and kindness of Allah, and until her death she lives only by Allah’s mercy. And besides Allah, who else can truly take care of a human being?
From the age of 10, a girl is told that she belongs to another house, but boys are never taught that someone will give them their nurtured daughter, and they must know how to honor her and treat her. Instead, the girl is reminded every day that she is only being raised in her parents’ home, that it is not truly her home.

A girl has no real home except two yards of land for her grave. Because before marriage she lives a life of being “a stranger” in her parents’ home, and after marriage she becomes dependent on her husband. And if the husband is not good, not religious, not a man of correct faith, her life becomes a hell. Yet even then, the blame is put on the girl, she is always considered the bad one. Why is society always so quick to accuse the girl? Are boys born like angels? Are they born without faults?

Only a girl has the heart to live with patience, relying solely on Allah.
If she is in her parents’ home, she must do whatever they tell her. And if the parents are irreligious, they force her to do things against Islam, she does them unwillingly, out of helplessness, and the parents care more about “what people will say” than about their daughter.

After marriage, she must obey her husband. If the husband is good, she obeys with happiness, but if he’s not, everything is forced upon her. She is displayed in front of a hundred people like an object. She is made to feel like a stranger in her parents’ home, and in her husband’s home she is reminded that “this is not your house, you cannot do what you want.”

Since childhood she is told she does not belong to her parents’ home.
Then why does a girl never have a home she can call her own, where she can live with peace, where she can do what brings comfort to her heart? A girl is called the “queen of the house,” yet she remains homeless in reality. Why is it like this? When will these outdated mindsets end in our society? It’s 2025, yet we still think like people of the 90s.

Our Prophet ï·º gave women honor, status, and dignity, yet today this society tries to degrade women and pushes them away from religion just so that the family’s “respect” can remain high in the eyes of people.

Truly, we all are strangers in this world. This world has only been given to us temporarily. If we live obeying Allah, then there is Paradise; otherwise, everything is worthless. We should not give preference to anyone over Allah, because who can reward us better than Him?

Humans, those same humans who are tired of us, who want to get rid of us, who humiliate us, no matter how much a woman sacrifices for her family, even if she tears out her own heart for them, they still remain ungrateful. But Allah... Allah becomes pleased even with a single tear of regret. If someone commits a sin, even after asking for forgiveness a hundred thousand times, humans may still not forgive, but Allah, with just one sincere repentance, not only forgives all sins, but turns them into good deeds.

I feel envy in a good way for my Allah, He is so Merciful, and we are so ungrateful. We cannot even obey Him the way He deserves. Astaghfirullah.

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